In dating, I am often confused by the mixed signals that men send. Just when you think you have a guy figured out, it turns out that what is really happening is the opposite. Let me elaborate.
I’ve been on 2 dates with a guy who is a good friend of mine. We were both hesistant to make the leap from friendship to dating, but after obvious flirtations, the prospect of something beyond friendship was clear and needed exploration. Date #1 was amazing and date #2 was better than the first. The expression that something is right under your nose started to make sense, because here was this great guy and he had been right under my nose for quite some time.
Since date #2, over 2 weeks have passed with no plans for hanging out anytime soon. In fact, communication beyond pleasantries has ceased to exist. Normally, I would think that this means my feelings are different than his, but I’ve heard through mutual friends that he is still talking about “us.”
If I could only decipher the boy brain, it would be extremely 
helpful. Since I can’t figure guys out, I am going to resort to the game that I played when I was young. I’ll just pick a flower, and as I pull petals off, declare “he loves me, he loves me not.” At least I’ll land on a clear answer.
